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Do you love someone with an addiction? Are you struggling?
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Whether you are dealing with the turmoil that comes from loving someone with an addiction or feeling broken and knocked down from the aftermath, Saving You Is Killing Me is your go-to book and podcast that can help you take back your power and your life.
Episodes

Feb 26, 2026
Feb 26, 2026
16 min
When Detox Isn’t Enough: Rebuilding Peace After Broken Promises
Detox can feel hopeful. Treatment can feel promising. But what happens when you’re still left rebuilding after years of broken promises?
In this episode, Andrea explores the emotional aftermath of relapse cycles, shattered trust, and the psychological impact of repeated hope followed by disappointment. Even when your loved one enters detox, you may still feel exhausted, guarded, or unsure how to move forward.
You’ll learn:
- Why broken promises create attachment trauma
- How relapse cycles affect your nervous system
- The difference between hope and self-protection
- Practical ways to rebuild your internal peace
This episode centers on Courage and Self-Care — especially when you realize detox alone doesn’t heal the damage left behind.
For deeper support, explore Andrea’s book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction and additional resources at:
👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Jul 2, 2025
Jul 2, 2025
22 min
I Want to Help… But I'm Done Being the Hero
The Helper-Hero Burnout Cycle & How to Step Out of It
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Jun 25, 2025
Jun 25, 2025
20 min
Is It Allergies… or Addiction?— When You Start to Notice the Signs Before They Say a Word
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Jun 18, 2025
Jun 18, 2025
1 hr 48 sec
I Don’t Know What’s Real Anymore
How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Emotional Chaos
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Jun 11, 2025
Jun 11, 2025
1 hr 48 sec
When Life Breaks You: Overcoming Life’s Toughest Setbacks with Andy Campbell
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Jun 4, 2025
Jun 4, 2025
21 min
Letting Go of Your Best Friend — When Grief Feels Unbearable
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

May 28, 2025
May 28, 2025
27 min
Loving Them Is Hurting Me
How to Set Boundaries Without Losing Your Heart
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

May 21, 2025
May 21, 2025
27 min
How Do I Let Go When I Still Love Them?
The Grief of Releasing Someone You Never Stopped Caring About
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

May 14, 2025
May 14, 2025
24 min
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

May 9, 2025
May 9, 2025
22 min
Supporting you through addiction's shadows
Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now
Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power.
The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being.
Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction.
✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!)
Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community.
💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support.
👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com
👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here
If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.
🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast.
📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction.
🧘♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.